You Are Not A Diagnosis: Embracing the Whole You
In today’s world, diagnoses are often seen as labels that define us. With a greater understanding and proactive approach to mental health, diagnoses, whether given by a professional, or given by a Tik Tok quiz, have become what we live and breathe. As we watch Tik Tok videos and relate to different lists of symptoms, everyone has determined they have ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, and at least one of your parents is a narcissist. While being bombarded by this on social media, it’s crucial to remember: You are not a diagnosis or label and it is okay to just experience these things as a part of the human experience.
The Power of Labels
Diagnoses are useful tools in mental healthcare. They help professionals understand symptoms, predict outcomes, and plan treatments. Mostly, they tell your insurance that your experience, is in fact, valid, and they should pay for your mental healthcare. While these labels can provide clarity and direction, or even validation, they can also become a source of identity if we let them. It’s important to recognize that a diagnosis is just a way to explain your experience and get the help you need. It is an essential part of the human experience that we all at times feel anxious, energetic, inattentive, and depressed. Our emotions serve a purpose and push us to accomplish more, connect with others, and provide for our basic needs. There are no good or bad emotions, and we should all meet some of the qualifications for every mental health diagnosis. It is part of being human.
Beyond the Diagnosis
When we start identifying ourselves with a diagnosis, we risk limiting our perception of ourselves and our potential. For instance, if someone is diagnosed with depression(whether self-diagnosed, or diagnosed by a professional), it can be easy to start seeing oneself only through the lens of that diagnosis. You start to live as ‘a depresssed person,’ establishing a momentum toward misery by disconnecting with those around you, ceasing to work toward your goals, and neglecting the parts of your life that bring you joy. If we all neglected these things, we would all feel depressed. We become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Embracing Your Wholeness
If helpful, acknowledge the Diagnosis, But Don’t Let It Define You: It can be validating to be able to label your experience and relate to others who experience similar things, but this experience does not define you. You are a multifaceted individual with unique experiences, dreams, and qualities that extend beyond a label.
Focus on Your Strengths: What are the things that make you who you are? Maybe you’re a talented artist, a supportive friend, or a dedicated professional. These strengths are integral to your identity and deserve to be celebrated.
Cultivate Your Interests: Engaging in activities and hobbies you love can help shift focus away from the difficulties you experience. Whether it’s painting, hiking, or reading, these activities can contribute to a sense of fulfillment and joy even if these emotions are muted through the lens of a mental health disorder.
Build Supportive Relationships: Surround yourself with people who see you for who you are. Supportive friends and family members who appreciate you as a whole person can help reinforce your sense of self-worth and identity.
Advocate for Yourself: Be proactive in your care, but remember to advocate for your needs while acknowledging your full self. Your voice matters, and you deserve to be heard as a complete person, not just as a patient or client.
The Journey Ahead
Living with mental health concerns can be challenging, but it’s important to remember that it doesn’t define your entire existence. Embrace your experience as a part of the human experience and your specific journey, but don’t let it overshadow the diverse and rich tapestry of your life. By focusing on your strengths, passions, and relationships, you can foster a sense of identity and cultivate wellness instead of illness.
Remember, you are a unique individual with a life full of potential and value. The labels we use may be a part of your story, but it is far from the whole story. Embrace all the facets of who you are, and let your identity shine beyond any diagnosis
